You’re (Probably) Undercharging. Now is the Time to Change That
Why should you raise your fees? Let me count the ways.
Do You Know Your Writer Stats?
The joy in record-keeping is the ability to see your life and business more clearly.
How I Stopped Fighting About Cooking on Thanksgiving
How do we write the story of our lives and our families?
Why You Have a Shelf of Unread Books (and What to Do About It)
Join us here in the Bookshelf Shame Club.
The Olympics, “Success,” Suicide, and Self-Care
Success and well-being are two entirely different things.
5 Things You Might Not Know About Thriving If You Grew Up Broke
Last week I went to LA, rented a convertible, and had a vacation during which I couldn’t shake a hum of anxiety. Would I make my 6 a.m. flight? I…
Health Insurance: This Country Will Leave You for Dead
The system is messy, confusing, unfair, and hard to deal with, but you need health insurance.
How to Find the Perfect Writing Coach for You
Shopping for a writing coach can be exhausting. Here's how to find the perfect one for you.
Overcome the Quarantine Slump in Your Writing with a Powerful New Story
What Is It You Plan to Do with Your One Wild and Precious Quarantine? You do not have to say “I should…” You do not have to pull on hard…
What I Learned Reading The Best Women’s Travel Writing Slush Pile
Reading a slush pile can be your best education in how to write a particular genre.
The 5 Joys of Kickass Clients (Aside from the Money)
Sure, great clients pay well, but there are so many other reasons to work for getting them as well.
Don’t Let Your Feelings Go to Waste
Ever wish there was a writing resource where you could house emotions to draw from? Enter the Feelings File.
3 Reasons I Write About Pain
One day last year, I was nearly doubled over in emotional pain, feeling directionless, asking what I should even do with all this pain. A little voice in my head…
Craft Lessons from Sad Songs
What is it about sad songs that makes us crave them? Do we want to be sadder? Are we trying to prolong the pain? Or, just maybe, is there a glint of healing in sharing someone else's sadness?
How to Become a Writer Even If You’re Broke
The ultimate guide on how to get an education, network, and become a successful writer on a shoestring.
Gritty Travel, Persistence, and Writing Old Memories
Read or watch my conversation with Pam Mandel, author of the travel memoir The Same River Twice.
What Happens When You Stop Hating Yourself
When you start from a place of acceptance, you're more likely to find a way to stop disappointing yourself.
The People You Allow Inside Your Quarantine Will Change You
Before I moved in with her, I knew Vicki Robin only as the local author of the personal-finance bestseller Your Money or Your Life, the matriarch of the financial independence…
Getting Back Up After A Creative Setback
I was standing on a rock in a yard in Colombia, trying to find good reception. My friend, a novelist, was on the phone, and his words, spoken from 4,000…
Why Quarantine Is A Great Time for Writers to Pick Up Yoga
Every Sunday, before I dive into my Morning Pages, I dive into downward-facing dog. I stretch myself into asanas, pushing my body up and out, channeling vitality that will power…
A Writer’s Guide to Camping
Listen, I'm a little bitch about my sleep. If I don't get my 7.5 hours, I morph into an emotional toddler. There I'll be, tearing up about the Capri Sun…
Now Might Be a Good Time for Those Semesters of Black Lit
“White privilege is your history being taught as a core class and mine being taught as an elective.” - Ozy Aloziem Since 2011 and until February, I lived in Capitol…
A Hot Date with Some Lit Mag Submissions
Spending an evening submitting is less like a day at work and more like a hot date, minus the sex and human connection. 🤷♀️
How to Find the Right Lit Mag for You
Every writer should be reading both the best and the most accessible literary magazines. Here's how.
Buying Your Freedom to Be a Writer
I landed at the house of Vicki Robin in early February. The plan was that I, in between apartments, would live in her island home, in a room with a…